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Commitment & Stability in Relationships - Navigating Fears, Expectations, and Long-Term Sustainability
Commitment is one of the most meaningful—and sometimes most misunderstood—concepts in relationships. It represents safety, trust, and shared intention. Yet, it can also stir up fears, doubts, and differing needs between partners. Understanding our own and our partner’s relationship to commitment is key to creating the stability that allows love to thrive.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
18 hours ago3 min read


Gottman's Stress Reducing Conversation: A Simple Way to Support Each Other
Stress is unavoidable—but disconnection doesn’t have to be. Gottman’s Stress-Reducing Conversation helps couples turn toward each other, fostering comfort, support, and deeper intimacy in the face of life’s challenges.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jan 133 min read


Your Drama-Free Holiday Survival Guide
The holidays don’t have to feel like emotional obstacle courses. With clear boundaries, grounded expectations, and a commitment to your own well-being, you can enjoy a season filled with connection—not chaos.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Dec 22, 20253 min read


Rewiring the Brain: How Neuroplasticity Supports Addiction Recovery
Addiction changes the brain, but so does recovery. Through neuroplasticity, every small act of healing becomes a step toward a stronger, healthier, and freer self.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Dec 1, 20253 min read


Avoiding Difficult Conversations In Relationships
Difficult conversations are a part of every meaningful relationship. When approached with respect and understanding, they can actually deepen trust and intimacy. As Dr. Gottman puts it, “Conflict is an opportunity to learn how to love each other better.”

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Nov 14, 20253 min read


6 Myths Of Infidelity: What Couples Really Need To Know
Infidelity is one of the most feared and painful breaches in any relationship. Yet despite how common it is, myths and misconceptions about affairs continue to cloud our understanding — often adding shame, blame, and confusion where clarity is most needed.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Nov 1, 20253 min read


The Effects of Gratitude on the Brain: How Thankfulness Shapes Mental Wellness
Gratitude isn’t just a fleeting emotion — it’s a powerful practice that reshapes how we experience the world. By intentionally focusing on what we appreciate, we train our brains to find balance, joy, and connection more easily. Over time, gratitude becomes more than an act — it becomes a state of mind, one that supports lasting emotional and relational health.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Oct 12, 20253 min read


Depression: Seeking Help Sooner Than Later
Seeking help for depression sooner rather than later is crucial in preventing complications and improving overall well-being.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Aug 1, 20242 min read

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