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The Science Behind Lasting Love: A Review of "The Science of Trust"
Gottman’s work is not just theoretical; it offers actionable advice for individuals and couples looking to strengthen their relationships.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Aug 28, 20242 min read


Communication Tips For Couples
Effective communication is crucial for a healthy and thriving relationship.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Aug 16, 20242 min read


Relationships: No Time For Quality Time
Balancing time in a relationship can be challenging, but is essential for maintaining a strong and healthy connection.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jul 13, 20242 min read


5 Relationship Myths Debunked
Relationship myths on true love, interests, happiness, and more are exposed.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jul 1, 20241 min read


Relationships: Money Matters
Experiencing relationship troubles due to financial issues is a common and challenging situation.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jun 21, 20242 min read


Affair Recovery: Betrayed And Broken
When you are experiencing strong emotions related to a sense of betrayal and heartbreak it can be overwhelming.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jun 10, 20242 min read


Are You In A Toxic Relationship?
Recognizing a toxic relationship is crucial for your mental, emotional, and sometimes physical well-being.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
May 23, 20242 min read


The Benefits Of Intensive Couples Therapy
Intensive couples therapy can be a highly effective option for couples seeking to improve their relationship.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
May 12, 20242 min read


7 Relationship Risks Of Criticism
Criticism can pose several risks to relationship satisfaction and success and is a predictor of divorce.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Apr 21, 20242 min read


Pathway To Rebuilding Trust
Rebuilding trust is definitely possible with intentional effort, patience, and effective communication.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Apr 11, 20242 min read


The Silent Slayer: Stonewalling
Stonewalling is one of the Gottman's Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, which are communication patterns that predict relationship failure.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Apr 5, 20242 min read


5 Dangers Of Defensiveness
Defensiveness in a relationship can be detrimental to its health and can hinder effective communication and problem-solving.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Mar 24, 20242 min read


Bringing Back The Spark
Every relationship goes through ups and downs, and it's normal to experience periods where the spark feels dim.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Mar 2, 20242 min read


Top 10 Benefits Of Therapy
Therapy offers a supportive environment where you can work towards personal growth, emotional healing, and improved quality of life.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Feb 21, 20242 min read


Affair Recovery: The Aftermath Of An Affair
Infidelity or an affair can have significant and varied impacts on an individual, both emotionally and psychologically.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Feb 4, 20242 min read


Affair Recovery: The Betrayer's Role
Recovering from an affair is a challenging and delicate process that requires commitment, patience, and open communication.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jan 31, 20242 min read


Be True To Yourself
Living authentically leads to a sense of inner peace, self-fulfillment, and a stronger connection with others.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jan 18, 20241 min read


How To Tame Jealousy
Jealousy can be tough to handle, but there are steps you can take to manage it.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jan 7, 20241 min read


Increase Connection In Your Relationship
Increasing connection in a relationship involves nurturing various aspects of your partnership.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Dec 8, 20232 min read


10 Important Issues To Discuss Before Marriage
These discussions can help build a strong foundation for your marriage by fostering understanding, trust, and alignment on important issues.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Nov 24, 20231 min read

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