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Relationships: Money Matters
Experiencing relationship troubles due to financial issues is a common and challenging situation.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jun 21, 20242 min read


Affair Recovery: Betrayed And Broken
When you are experiencing strong emotions related to a sense of betrayal and heartbreak it can be overwhelming.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jun 10, 20242 min read


Are You In A Toxic Relationship?
Recognizing a toxic relationship is crucial for your mental, emotional, and sometimes physical well-being.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
May 23, 20242 min read


The Benefits Of Intensive Couples Therapy
Intensive couples therapy can be a highly effective option for couples seeking to improve their relationship.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
May 12, 20242 min read


7 Relationship Risks Of Criticism
Criticism can pose several risks to relationship satisfaction and success and is a predictor of divorce.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Apr 21, 20242 min read


Pathway To Rebuilding Trust
Rebuilding trust is definitely possible with intentional effort, patience, and effective communication.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Apr 11, 20242 min read


The Silent Slayer: Stonewalling
Stonewalling is one of the Gottman's Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, which are communication patterns that predict relationship failure.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Apr 5, 20242 min read


5 Dangers Of Defensiveness
Defensiveness in a relationship can be detrimental to its health and can hinder effective communication and problem-solving.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Mar 24, 20242 min read


Bringing Back The Spark
Every relationship goes through ups and downs, and it's normal to experience periods where the spark feels dim.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Mar 2, 20242 min read


Top 10 Benefits Of Therapy
Therapy offers a supportive environment where you can work towards personal growth, emotional healing, and improved quality of life.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Feb 21, 20242 min read


Affair Recovery: The Aftermath Of An Affair
Infidelity or an affair can have significant and varied impacts on an individual, both emotionally and psychologically.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Feb 4, 20242 min read


Affair Recovery: The Betrayer's Role
Recovering from an affair is a challenging and delicate process that requires commitment, patience, and open communication.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jan 31, 20242 min read


Be True To Yourself
Living authentically leads to a sense of inner peace, self-fulfillment, and a stronger connection with others.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jan 18, 20241 min read


How To Tame Jealousy
Jealousy can be tough to handle, but there are steps you can take to manage it.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jan 7, 20241 min read


Increase Connection In Your Relationship
Increasing connection in a relationship involves nurturing various aspects of your partnership.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Dec 8, 20232 min read


10 Important Issues To Discuss Before Marriage
These discussions can help build a strong foundation for your marriage by fostering understanding, trust, and alignment on important issues.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Nov 24, 20231 min read


8 Ways To Build Emotional Intimacy
Emotional intimacy is a crucial component of a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Oct 15, 20232 min read


Top 10 Conflicts Couples Face
Couples can face a wide range of conflicts, often arising from differences in personalities, values, expectations, and communication styles.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Sep 10, 20233 min read


Bring Back The Fun In Your Relationship
The key to bringing back the fun is to prioritize spending quality time together and finding activities that resonate with both.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Aug 19, 20232 min read


5 Steps To Save Your Relationship
Relationships are a journey with ups and downs. It's essential to be compassionate, understanding, and supportive of each other.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Aug 7, 20232 min read

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