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Permission to Feel: A Path to Emotional Intelligence and Wellbeing
By granting ourselves and others the permission to feel, we open the door to a more empathetic, resilient, and emotionally intelligent society.
Paula Gurnett
Aug 13 min read


8 Powerful Ways To Build Emotional Intimacy In Your Relationship
When emotional intimacy grows, so does the richness, resilience, and joy of your relationship.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jun 143 min read


The Pros of Intensive Therapy: A Deep Dive into Healing
Intensive therapy is not just therapy turned up in volume—it’s therapy turned deeper, wider, and more focused. For those who are ready and willing, it can be a powerful catalyst for change, clarity, and emotional freedom. If you feel like you’ve been surviving instead of thriving, this might be the step that leads you into lasting healing.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
May 183 min read


4 Common Mistakes Couples Make During Conflict (And How to Fix Them)
Disagreements are inevitable in any relationship, but learning to navigate conflict with effectively can lead to a stronger partnership.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Mar 192 min read


How To Set Healthy Boundaries For A Balanced Life
Embrace the power of boundaries and start living a more balanced, fulfilled life.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Feb 153 min read


The "Let Them Theory": Embracing Peace & Letting Go
The "Let Them" theory is about embracing acceptance and inner peace.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Feb 13 min read


Navigating Perpetual Issues In Relationships
It’s not about eliminating conflict but learning to navigate it together—strengthening your bond and deepening your love along the way.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jan 133 min read


Strengthening Your Marriage with Healthy Boundaries – A Review of "Boundaries in Marriage"
Boundaries in marriage are about fostering a supportive and safe environment for both partners to grow, individually and together.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Dec 8, 20242 min read


Borderline Personality Disorder: A Review of "Stop Walking on Eggshells"
A lifeline for those looking for practical, empathetic advice on dealing with a loved one’s unpredictable behaviours.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Oct 19, 20243 min read


A Deep Dive Into Navigating High-Conflict Relationships
"High-Conflict Couple" by Alan E. Fruzzetti is an invaluable resource for couples trapped in a cycle of destructive conflict.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Sep 26, 20242 min read


The Science Behind Lasting Love: A Review of "The Science of Trust"
Gottman’s work is not just theoretical; it offers actionable advice for individuals and couples looking to strengthen their relationships.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Aug 28, 20242 min read


Communication Tips For Couples
Effective communication is crucial for a healthy and thriving relationship.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Aug 16, 20242 min read


Relationships: No Time For Quality Time
Balancing time in a relationship can be challenging, but is essential for maintaining a strong and healthy connection.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jul 13, 20242 min read


Relationships: Money Matters
Experiencing relationship troubles due to financial issues is a common and challenging situation.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Jun 21, 20242 min read


Are You In A Toxic Relationship?
Recognizing a toxic relationship is crucial for your mental, emotional, and sometimes physical well-being.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
May 23, 20242 min read


The Benefits Of Intensive Couples Therapy
Intensive couples therapy can be a highly effective option for couples seeking to improve their relationship.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
May 12, 20242 min read


7 Relationship Risks Of Criticism
Criticism can pose several risks to relationship satisfaction and success and is a predictor of divorce.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Apr 21, 20242 min read


Pathway To Rebuilding Trust
Rebuilding trust is definitely possible with intentional effort, patience, and effective communication.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Apr 11, 20242 min read


The Silent Slayer: Stonewalling
Stonewalling is one of the Gottman's Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, which are communication patterns that predict relationship failure.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Apr 5, 20242 min read


5 Dangers Of Defensiveness
Defensiveness in a relationship can be detrimental to its health and can hinder effective communication and problem-solving.

Paula Gurnett, MA, C.C.C.
Mar 24, 20242 min read

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