Increase Connection In Your Relationship

Paula Gurnett, C.C.C. December 8, 2023

Increasing connection in a relationship involves nurturing various aspects of your partnership. Here are some tips to enhance your bond:

1. Communication: Open, honest communication is key. Share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences with your partner, and encourage them to do the same. Active listening is equally important.

2. Quality Time: Spend intentional, quality time together. This could be through shared activities, date nights, or simply being present with each other without distractions (put the phones down!).

3. Shared Interests: Find common hobbies or interests that you both enjoy. Exploring new activities together can create a deeper bond.

4. Support and Understanding: Show interest, empathy, and support for each other’s goals, dreams, and challenges. Being there for one another during tough times strengthens the connection.

5. Physical Affection: Physical touch, intimacy, and affection are important aspects of connection. Holding hands, hugs, and cuddling can foster emotional closeness.

6. Appreciation and Gratitude: Express appreciation and gratitude for each other regularly. Acknowledging the positives in your partner can strengthen the relationship.

7. Trust and Respect: Build and maintain trust by being reliable and respectful towards each other. Trust forms the foundation of a strong connection.

8. Conflict Resolution: Learn healthy ways to handle conflicts. Use disagreements as opportunities to understand each other better and find solutions together.

9. Surprise and Spontaneity: Add an element of surprise and spontaneity to your relationship. It could be as simple as planning a surprise dinner or an unplanned outing.

10. Emotional Intimacy: Share your emotions and vulnerabilities. Being emotionally intimate deepens the connection by creating a sense of understanding and closeness.

Remember, every relationship is unique. It’s important to understand your partner’s needs and preferences and adjust these tips accordingly. Communication is often the foundation upon which all these aspects thrive, so keeping an open dialogue about your relationship can help foster a stronger connection. Seek the support of a relationship therapist for help and intentional growth in connection and communication skills if needed.